When it comes to relationships, age differences can sometimes raise concerns about consent and power imbalances, especially if you are 16 or 17 years old. We want to ensure that you have the information you need to make informed decisions and feel safe in your relationships.
Consent is vital in any relationship. It means giving your permission freely, without feeling pressured, scared, unconscious, drunk, or under the influence of certain drugs. Legally, if you are under the age of 16, you cannot consent to sex. It’s crucial to know that consent is an ongoing process – you can change your mind at any time.
As a young person in a relationship with a partner who is more than 5 years older or younger than you, it’s essential to be aware of power balances and expectations. You should feel equal in decision-making abilities and comfortable asserting your boundaries. Remember, you always have the right to say no to any sexual activity that you’re not comfortable with or don’t want.
Communication is key to a healthy relationship. Openly talk with your partner about your boundaries, desires, and concerns. A relationship built on respect and understanding is more likely to be a positive and fulfilling experience for both partners.
If you find it challenging to discuss these matters with your partner or have any concerns about your relationship, don’t hesitate to reach out to us for support. We’re here to listen, provide guidance, and help you navigate through any challenges you may face.